What to Expect From a Domestic Violence Program
What to expect if you call a program:
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A caring listening ear. All programs have people who can listen and help you sort out options.
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Advocacy services. Most programs have specially trained advocates who can help with welfare, CPS, disAbilityservices, immigration, housing, employment protections, and more.
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Emergency shelter. Many programs offer shelter or safe homes.
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Transitional housing. Some programs have longer term housing for survivors.
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Support groups. Some programs run groups for children, youth and adults.
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Legal advocacy. Most programs offer information about protection orders and other civil matters. Most do not provide legal counsel, but can refer you to free or low cost attorneys.
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Crisis services. Many programs offer 24-hour crisis services.
What to expect if you go to an emergency shelter:
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Shelters are free — no fees are charged to stay. Many shelters have time limits for how long you can stay.
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Most shelters have shared kitchens, common areas, and bathrooms. Shelters provide the food but if you have special dietary concerns (i.e., gluten-free, allergies), you should let the staff know.
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If you have children, you will probably all share one bedroom.
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If you are alone, you may have to share a room.
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You are responsible for taking care of your own children.
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All shelters must welcome service animals.
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However, most shelters cannot accommodate pets. Many will work with you to make arrangements to have your pets cared for elsewhere.
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Shelters have laundry facilities and supply linens (sheets, towels and blankets).
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Many have emergency clothing and toiletries available for the first few days of a stay.
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You will be asked to honor the privacy of other residents by not discussing their names or situations with anyone else.
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Shelters are concerned about everybody's safety, so you may be asked to keep the location a secret.
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Visitors are generally not allowed.
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Shelters can be stressful---you will be in a group living situation with others who are experiencing tough times too!